A coaching trajectory is not a mapped out path. Often, after the first conversation, all kinds of insights emerge that ultimately determine the trajectory.
The conversation starts with the question:
Ultimately, we will structure and summarize this together to get to the core.
There will emerge a subject that will draw your focus and attention. We are going to look at HOW you can start seeing this differently. During the conversations you will receive tools and insights.
We conclude with a summary, homework and a new appointment.
Judith Bekkers-Leijten,
Midwife and educated coach.
Since April 2020 it's possible for cliënts and their partners to turn to Belle Vie Birthcare and Welfare. Many different questions and conversations are passing by. The pshysical complaints don't have to be big or heavy, Judith is always able to support you no matter what your complaints are.
I am affiliated with the VIV; Vereniging Integrale Vitaliteitkunde,
A professional association for therapists. Various health insurances will compansate this way of personal guidance. Depending on your additional insurance compansation is possible. This treatment belongs to alternative care, psychosocial care. Aks your health insurance company about the possibilities.
No, men are also welcome. for them a delivery can also be a impressive event. The change of role in a relationship or family can sometimes have a major impact.
What appealed most to you in this coaching conversation and why?
After a violent first delivery and a difficult maternity period, I started working with Judith during my second pregnancy. For the first time in a long time, I felt that my sadness and fear was being heard. During the conversations Judith showed a lot of compassion and at the same time she made me aware of my pitfalls in a pleasantly direct way. Judith's calm and down-to-earth approach really appeals to me. Judith holds up a mirror in a subtle way, helps you find your own answers and is cheerful. Therefore, there is a lot of space for perspective and humor. In addition, Judith is very knowledgeable and I never doubted her expertise for a second. She has helped me enormously in reliving my story, so that made me able to give my experience a place. Moreover, Judith is alert and remembers details with which she can make ends meet. She uses small details from previous conversations in a later stage during the process. This makes you feel really heard and seen. Finally, nothing is too crazy, which creates an open conversation and makes you feel very comfortable with her.
How will you apply the content of this coaching after the conversation? What concrete steps are you going to take?
Thanks to the conversations, my sadness and fear have given way to more self-compassion and power. As a result, I now make more time for my own needs. Indicate boundaries and I apply the brain method (also in daily life 😊),
The goal has been achieved because...
During my second delivery I felt confident in the process, I am proud of my body and I have been able to guard my limits. In addition, my partner and I have come to understand each other better and we have experienced the delivery of our second child as very pleasant.
The information gave me a good idea of the trajectory?
The trajectory arose during the conversations. It was great that we thought together about the right next step. I had no expectations at the start.
Finally, what feedback (compliments and tips) would you like to give?
Thank you for your calm approach and sober view. I hope you can help many more women, men and families in this way. I learned a lot during this process. Both with a view to childbirth and beyond.
Do you live in Rosmalen, Groote Wielen, Hintham, Berlicum, Middelrode, Geffen, Nuland or Vinkel? We support you with a delivery at home as well as a delivery at the Jeroen Bosch Hospital or the Hospital Bernhoven.
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